Semantics and Interpretations

Semantics and interpretations are important.

We should always be mindful of our choice of words to ensure that the right semantics and the right interpretations are achieved, especially when using words that are relatively similar. And no, I'm not talking about that George Gershwin song that emphasizes the different pronunciations of the letter A in the words tomato and potato. You know the one: “You say tomato, and I say tomato. You say potato, and I say potato: potato … potato … tomato … tomato … let’s call the whole thing off.” (But I got you singing it though, didn't I?)

No, what I'm talking about are the use of words that seem similar, but are semantically and interpretively distinct. And the two biggest words that I can think of in this light, are the words "respond" and "react." Are they the same, and do they mean the same thing? Maybe? Somewhat? Kindasorta? Well, look at it this was: Reaction tends to be negative - response positive.

Think about it: We respond (well) to happy news, good times, good change, the right medication, pleasant surprises, our favorite team winning, love, affection, etc., etc., etc.. As long as it's positive, we respond. On the other hand, we react (not so well) to unhappy news, bad times, bad change, the wrong medication, unwanted surprises, our favorite team losing, meanness, pain, loss, etc., etc., etc., - and will always react, as long as it's negative.

Here's a thought: What if we challenged ourselves to respond, when nature tells us to react? For example, instead of reacting (poorly) to bad news, bad times, unwanted change, meanness, hostility, etc. - we respond with the right Perspective, Attitude, Aptitude and Mindfulness. (That's called PAAM, and PAAM is really important when it comes to achieving success at work, and life). Sure, it's hard to always respond, especially given all the negatives and dynamics in life. But what if we tried to do it anyhow? If given the choice, and the ability - do you want to respond, or do you want to react?

I think we know the answer.

To respond is good. To react is bad.